# 7 – Mental Toughness: It’s a Choice, Not a Trait

Written on 09/11/2024
Lt. Brian Ellis

Too many think mental toughness is something you’re born with—but the truth is, it’s built through choices you make every day.

Here’s a fresh perspective:

Choose Discipline Over Comfort: Mental toughness isn’t found in easy moments. It’s developed when you push through discomfort repeatedly.

Choose to Learn, Not Lament: Every setback is a lesson. Mentally tough people choose to see the opportunity in failure and grow from it instead of letting it break them.

Choose Progress Over Perfection: It’s not about always being strong. It’s about showing up, even when it’s hard. Progress is what builds resilience.

Mental toughness is a choice. What will you choose today?